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Aphrodite's Playroom (organiser's event image)

7pm to 1am · London

Aphrodite's Playroom

Play-focused event (play party)

An intimate evening created exclusively for our members—a space where women and non-binary souls can slow downMembers and guestsParticipation: Not stated.

Not stated0.0 milesCollected automatically on 1 Sep 2026

Saturday club night (organiser's image)

8pm to 3am · Stratford, London, London

Saturday club night

Club night

Entry 20+ onlyPay on the doorParticipation: Not stated.

Not stated0.0 milesCollected automatically on 1 Sep 2026

Pleasure Island (organiser's image)

9pm to 2am · London

Pleasure Island

Play-focused event (play party)

Open to couplesVetting before entryParticipation: Not stated.

£200 to £3000.0 milesCollected automatically on 1 Sep 2026

Inside Ignite: the bar and seating area

9pm to 2am · West Drayton, Heathrow, London

Couples and Ladies Only Saturday Party

Club night

Open to couples, solo womenApplication firstParticipation: Not stated.

Not stated0.0 milesCollected automatically on 2 Sep 2026

Pleasure Island Parties London (organiser's event image)

9pm to 2am · London

Pleasure Island Parties London

Play-focused event (play party)

With no more than 30 people at each event, we welcome couples, play partners, and intimate friends of all levels of experience to come explore their erotic joy in a beautiful, safely-held environment.Vetting before entryParticipation: Not stated.

£2000.0 milesCollected automatically on 2 Sep 2026

KISS with INTRODUCTORY NEWBIE HOURS (organiser's image)

9:30pm to 3am · Central London, London

Kiss

Club night

Open to couples, solo women, solo menVetting before entryParticipation: Not stated.

Not stated0.0 milesCollected automatically on 1 Sep 2026

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